All You Need is Yourself!

July 4, 2022 naturelover Life

This post I’m sure will apply to every single soul out there.  This is about relationships.  Most of you probably just rolled your eyes or just had flashback experiences.. and if you didn’t.. now you did, so I apologize!!

Anyway, what I want to say is that, you’re strong.  You don’t need anyone to make you feel that way!  I understand that the feeling of belonging to someone.. is absolutely beautiful. We’re human beings, we crave the attention and love that we need from one special person.  Then you realize that that love you were looking for, is looking off at someone else. It’s hard, really hard, but you don’t need to make yourself suffer.  Don’t constantly think about past relationships or lovers.  They’re out of your life for a reason, so please don’t hurt yourself like this.

Love is such a strange thing.  It’s suppose to make you feel beautiful, in every single way possible, but it ends up hurting us in every way possible.  But that’s false!  If you get severely hurt at the end of a relationship.. it wasn’t love.  No matter how long you guys were together. Wanna know why?  It’s because love is beautiful, love is trusting, love is loyal, love is honest, love is pure, love is healthy, and love is real!  It’s out there, and it’s looking for you, don’t worry. Why do you have to be the one that goes looking for love?  You don’t! It will find you.  I’m a strong believer of love.  Personally, I’ve never been able to experience true love with someone special, but that’s okay.  I’ve mixed up love and lust plenty of times, and I feel terrible for it.  Once I’m with my one true love, I’ll know it, for sure.

What I’m trying to say is that be strong.  Never give up on yourself because  some jackass hurt you.  And no, I’m not just talking about chicks.  This goes for you dudes, too!  You guys know what you deserve, and if you don’t get it, you deserve better!  That’s something I’ve learned recently.  I got hurt, and quickly healed because I realized after that I deserved better.  I deserve someone that respects me, asks me how I’m doing (and cares), that takes the time to get to know ME, that wishes to be with me at 11:11, that thinks about me as he/she falls into a deep slumble.. someone that is willing to love me, because he wants to love me.  You all, deserve that too.  No matter what anyone says!  Be strong for you!


13 Responses to “All You Need is Yourself!”

  • Amber says:

    I think you should be happy with yourself first. A lot of people say they’re missing something and that they’re lonely, but you should be happy with your life. You can’t fill that space with another person, it just doesn’t work that way. That’s why so many relationships end. :(
    Ofcourse it’s a great feeling to belong to someone, but only when you’re happy with the way your life goes and who you are, you can truly love someone for the right reasons and not just to fill the empty space. It’s a nice feeling not to be lonely, but it doesn’t work in the end. :)

    • naturelover says:

      Absolutely! I totally agree with you Amber. There is nooo way, that you’re going to make a relationship work when/if you don’t love who you are. How can you expect someone else to elove you when you can’t even love yourself?
      You have to make sure that you accept yourself as a beautiful individual before you go looking for someone yourself. :) That’s why you might as well love yourself, because it makes life a whole lot better :)

  • Brittany says:

    I agree with this so much! I also want to say that you are such an inspiration, you have such brilliant opinions on life and you have such a way with words as well, you are an amazing writer. I watch your dread videos and you are amazing for doing what you wanted to do even though dreads aren’t always the mainstream thing. however, i am curious about the ways that you are similar to the average teen?
    you are wonderful and so beautiful. xxx.

    • naturelover says:

      Wow! That was way too many compliments, I’m so flattered. Thank you kindly!<3
      And thank you for complimeting me on my writing, because writing is a huge passion of mine. :) How am i simliar to teenagers?... uh, I like to celebrate life? But lots of people do! I'm not too sure. I still have the child-like spirit, but I think its more visible to see that I have an old soul as well.
      Brittany, You are so wonderful! Always smile :)

  • Michela says:

    Thanks for this post.
    My boyfriend left me ten months ago and it seems like i’m not the same person anymore because he was like…well, he was everything to me: we sayed together for one year and he was not just my boyfriend but also my friend and when he went away…it hurt so much and it still hurts! I’m trying to go on but it’s so hard, i don’t recognize myself anymore but i’m trying…not my best, i have to admit, but i’m trying.
    Your words are so true and i think i’ll try my best to go on and try to come back to life, not surviving anymore (: Thanks!

    • naturelover says:

      I’m so sorry, Michela. <3 I can't imagine how hard this must be for you, but please stay strong. Just live! Life is so exciting and unpredictable, who knows what will happen for you. :) Not a problem, I love speaking my mind and reaching out to those people who just need a few words to open their hearts.

  • Ashleigh says:

    good thoughts girl. i 100% agree!

  • Chandler says:

    Kimber do you think you’ll ever make YouTube videos again? I watch you old ones all the time and I still love them o(*^▽^*)o

  • Etarria says:

    Hi Kimber!! I was wondering if you were still making YouTube videos? I really love them and I miss them so much, you have a beautiful soul as well!

  • Etarria says:

    I love your spirit and soul!

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